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经常想对爸爸妈妈好,想让他们开心,我们可能会想尽办法去对他们好,想孝顺他们,但是其实真的有没有想过,对爸爸妈妈来说,在他们的角度,什么才是开心呢?
其实对爸爸妈妈来说,开心,
我个人觉得不是物质上的东西,不是用东西可以换回来的。
有些时候我们可能会用我们的角度去想,这样做,那样做,做完会觉得爸爸妈妈会开心,但可能他们并没有,了解爸爸妈妈的心以后,有可能会觉得跟我们想象的东西完全不一样。
对爸爸妈妈来说,其实有些时候可能很简单的东西就可能可以令到爸爸妈妈开心的,比如说,多点打电话,多点见面,多点一起吃饭,多点一起聊天,只要是一起的时间,什么都是珍贵的,在一起的每一分钟每一秒爸爸妈妈都会开心。
知道我们每一个人其实每天每天都很忙,每天每天有不同的东西要处理,有不同的压力要负担,其实每天哪怕是几分钟,打个电话,发个信息,问问爸爸妈妈 ”吃饭了吗””在干嘛” 关心关心,说一句“我爱你““我想你“ 也会令到爸爸妈妈非常非常开心的。
We always want to treat our parents good, use every possible ways, to make them happy. But what's really happiness to our parents? In their perspective, what's really happiness?
To our parents, happiness, isn't something that you can buy, isn't something that you can exchange with. It's not about the Materialism, it's not about the money. Even simple things that we do, can make them happy. Such as, calling home often, contacting often, meeting often, being together often, every second every minute together is precious.
I know that we're always busy, we're all living different lives, all sorts of things waiting for us to sort out every day, all kinds of stress everyday.
Maybe just 5 minutes everyday, maybe a few text messages, a phone call asking " did you eat?" " what are you up to?" " I miss you" " I love you " can bring happiness to our parents.
I love you mom and dad.
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